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The freedoms I now grant myself

I now allow myself the full freedom

to fill up my life completely with things and people that I love.
to not associate or have anything to do with people or things that I dislike or feel no connection to.
to talk to interesting people that I am curious about.
to love myself truly and completely.
to let go of [...]

Chrysalis: Empower (2)

Empower (part 2)

“Only the heart knows the correct answer. Most people think the heart is mushy and sentimental. But it’s not. The heart is intuitive; it’s holistic, it’s contextual, it’s relational. It doesn’t have a win-lose orientation. It taps into the cosmic computer – the field of pure potentiality, pure knowledge, and infinite organizing power [...]

Chrysalis: Empower (1)

Empower (part 1)

Oh hay! Look! I’ve gone and resurrected this from the dead.
I stopped writing Chrysalis for a long time because, although it did have a positive effect on how I lived my daily life (just having that daily commitment to self-development really changed the way I perceived situations) – it was starting to feel [...]

Chrysalis 3.2: Understanding life on autopilot

3: Courage & Self-awareness (part 2)
I just wrote this spontaneously, and it is the result of focussing on courage and self-awareness this week:
I want to find something that I can truly devote my life to. It’s a constant search I suppose. I have been searching unconsciously for my whole life and consciously for years and [...]

Chrysalis 3.1: Light, beauty

3: Courage & Self-awareness (part 1)

“There is nothing that you are not able to overcome and transform into the light of that which you wish to create.”
- @ShipsofSong

“But acting with beauty and courage doesn’t always mean you win.  It just means that you can still look at yourself in the mirror without cringing.”
- helios137.livejournal.com

Chrysalis 3: Courage & Self-awareness

Yes, this is late (sorry!) but better late than never right?:

Wrap-up of 2: Joy & Acceptance
The interesting thing I’ve been noticing about this project is that I reap the benefits of it mostly towards the end of the week or in the week following. For example, last week I found it a lot easier [...]

Chrysalis: 2.2 – Life is in love with us

Joy & Acceptance (Part 2)
An online friend of mine, James, shared these two wonderful excerpts with me. First:
God speaks to each of us as he makes us,
then walks with us silently out of the night.
These are the words we dimly hear:

You, sent out beyond your recall,
go to the limits of your longing.
Embody me.
Flare up [...]

Chrysalis: 2.1 – “It’s found before you seek it”

Joy & Acceptance (Part 1)

“I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake. Life is no brief candle to me.  It is a splendid torch which I have got hold of for the moment, and I want [...]

Chrysalis: 2 – Joy & Acceptance

Wrap-up of 1: Gratitude & Giving

I feel like I’ve learned to see the world more in terms of how I can add to it as opposed to my conditioned thought patterns of what I can take. In one of the first few posts I made, someone on Facebook commented that it’s really the focus on [...]

Chrysalis: 1.5 – Half and half

Gratitude & Giving (part 5)

Today I’ve been feeling rather split in half. Part of me is under extreme pressure and the other part is ready to just fly free – to fly completely free like never before. I wonder if breakthroughs generally come from feeling so caught between two huge, opposing influences. I hope so, [...]